Your Current Relationship, if single discuss how single life is.
My current relationship is with myself, we are working very hard to keep things running smoothly. You would think after 20 years of being together we would have worked out all of our problems, but that has proven to be quite difficult. There is something I have been told in the past that has really stuck with me and that is that "you cant be you and him until you know who you are". Where I am in life is completely finding myself and deciding who it is I want to be for the rest of the time, Before I would go through short chapters of life, whether semesterly, by school year, what school attending, but there was always forced change. After this last change it gets to the point where everything is up to me. Now is where I get to come to terms with my relationship with myself and stop burning the bridges of my relationships with everyone else.
In all seriousness though, single life has its ups and downs, it really does. I have learned that being single is alot better for my friendships. I am a very busy person so usually I do not have a large amount of free time to split among people. When I am single, I can hang out with my bestfriend whenever I am free, no boys to steal up all my time. That is the upside of single, with a few accompanying factors of getting to go out with no rules and not having to stress about what he is doing or what he wants/needs. Single is quite a bit more stress free than being in a relationship. The downsides though are I feel like I am wasting my time being without the person I am going to be with forever and I feel very foolish "looking" for that person. Another downside is the mild wanting to like someone and do cute things with them, plus trying to deal with showing I am over past relationships I really know a relationship is not something to be forced and is not something that will come easy for me at this point in my life so I am going to power through and really focus on my relationship with myself and who I am planning on becoming.
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